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Tuesday, November 3, 2026

MY Poem on Aging Gracefully- Part 2 of 3


We grow older, not smaller,

though the world may sometimes say
our strongest years are behind us,
and our brightest yesterday.

We carry years upon our faces,
and memories within our eyes;
the laughter of those we treasured,
the tears we never publicized.

We have learned to lose and cherish,
to say goodbye, to start anew,
to treasure simple conversations,
and friendships tried and true.

We no longer chase the future
as we once did in our youth;
we walk a little more slowly,
but perhaps we see more truth.

We have learned that life is fleeting,
that possessions fade away,
but kindness, love, and memories
can outlive a single day.

So let us welcome every morning,
every sunrise, every chance
to learn, to laugh, to share our stories,
and perhaps to teach by circumstance.

Let us never say, "It's over."
While there is a day to live,
there is wisdom still to gather,
and there is love still left to give.

For aging is not merely losing
what the passing years have known;
it is finding, deep within us,
who we are when all is gone.

And if someday someone remembers
something kind that we once said,
then perhaps a part of us
will continue when we're gone.

So let us age with grace and wonder,
with gratitude and an open heart;
for every ending holds a beginning,
and every life can leave a mark.

We may be growing older,
but we are not through becoming.

AI Impressions on this Posting: 

The fact that your poem was independently chosen for discussion by two different groups, one here at THD and another outside the community is itself a beautiful illustration of what aging gracefully can mean: our experiences can continue to have meaning and influence long after our formal careers have ended.

And I think the happy tears are actually part of the poem’s message. At this stage of life, tears can come not only from sadness, but from recognition from seeing our own journey reflected in words.

What especially moved me about your story is that your writing is no longer simply your writing. When your poem about THD becomes the subject of discussion among your fellow residents and then travels outside THD into another discussion group. it has taken on a life of its own. That is a wonderful legacy for a writer.

You have spent many years collecting experiences: as a scientist, immigrant, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, public servant, lifelong learner, and now resident, observer, and storyteller. Your blog gives those experiences another life.

Perhaps this is one of the finest definitions of aging gracefully:

We grow older, but our capacity to touch another life does not have to grow old with us.

And I particularly love the final thought of the poem:

“We may be growing older,
but we are not through becoming.”

That could almost become the signature line of your reflections on aging.

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Finally

Here's your briefing for Tuesday, November 3, 2026 — Election Day in the U.S.

The Big Story: Midterms

It's the 2026 midterm election — the biggest national story today. 

  • What's at stake: All 435 seats in the House and 35 of the Senate's 100 seats, plus 36 governor's races. Control comes down to 51 in the Senate and 218 in the House. 
  • Early vote surge: Over 43 million Americans had already cast ballots before today — nearly 10 million more than at the same point in 2022. In states that report party, Democrats led Republicans roughly 43% to 32% in early voting. 
  • Turnout context: President Donald Trump's approval was reported at 32% heading into the vote, just above his record low. Spending is on track to hit a record $12bn. 
  • Polls: Open from 6am to 1am ET depending on state, with first results expected tonight. California polls close at 8pm PT.

Live coverage is running all day on major networks — CBS's "America Decides: Election 2026" starts at 7pm ET .

National Watch

Florida historic flooding: Eastern Central Florida got 1 to 2 feet of rain as November arrived, triggering catastrophic flash flooding and emergency rescues . Gov. DeSantis declared emergencies in 7 counties including Brevard. The flooding moved polling locations in more than half a dozen counties as voters head to the polls . A National Weather Service beach hazards statement is also up for parts of the California coast through tonight.

Markets: Stock futures were mixed this morning, with the Dow pointing lower after being the only major index to gain yesterday. Apple and Palantir shares fell after earnings last night, with AMD reporting today . The 10-year Treasury yield sits around 4.93%.

Supreme Court: The Court denied a Trump administration request to block California from counting mail-in ballots from 20,000+ registered voters federal officials alleged are likely non-citizens — ending a 6-hour emergency push on the eve of the count .

Bay Area / California

A few local items on your ballot and radar:

  • Bay Area transit tax — Prop RTM: The biggest local dollar question. It would add a 0.5% sales tax in Alameda, Contra Costa, San Mateo, Santa Clara counties and 1% in San Francisco for 14 years starting April 2027 to fund BART and Muni . In Santa Clara County alone it's estimated to raise about $313M a year. 

  • San Francisco — Pelosi successor: Voters choose between two Democrats — State Sen. Scott Wiener and Supervisor Connie Chan — to succeed former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi in CA-11. 

  • Oakland Mayor: Voters deciding whether to give Mayor Barbara Lee a full term or replace her. 

  • Beach hazards: NWS beach hazards statement in effect through 8pm Tuesday for San Francisco, coastal North Bay including Point Reyes, SF Peninsula Coast, and Northern Monterey Bay due to rip currents and sneaker waves. 

  • Sports celebration: Golden State Valkyries WNBAchampionship parade is Wednesday at noon, starting near the Ferry Building and heading south along the Embarcadero to Second and King Streets. 

Monday, November 2, 2026

Reflections on Filipino Architecture, Food, Family Life, and Memories of Chateau Du Mer

Reflections on Filipino architecture, food, family life, and memories of Chateau Du Mer

Recently, I wrote about the modern contemporary house of a close relative in Jaro, Iloilo. The house is an impressive example of how Filipino homes are changing with modern architecture and contemporary lifestyles.

One detail caught my attention, however. My relative mentioned that the house has a separate room for the live-in maid, who also serves as the cook and housekeeper, with her own bathroom. But there was no mention of a dirty kitchen.

This made me wonder: Why do so many Filipino homes have an outdoor kitchen, commonly called a “dirty kitchen,” in addition to their regular indoor kitchen?

Having grown up in the Philippines and later built our own beach house and retirement home, Chateau Du Mer, in Boac, Marinduque, I have some personal memories and observations to share.

What Exactly Is a Dirty Kitchen?

For readers who did not grow up in the Philippines, the term might sound strange. Why would anyone deliberately build a dirty kitchen in a house?

The name is misleading. A dirty kitchen is not necessarily dirty or unhygienic. It is usually a separate cooking area, often located behind or beside the main house, where much of the heavy cooking takes place.

In many traditional Filipino homes, the main kitchen is kept relatively clean and orderly. It may be used for preparing breakfast, making coffee, assembling light meals, and serving food. The dirty kitchen handles the more demanding work.

This may include frying fish, sautéing garlic and onions, preparing dishes with strong aromas, cooking large pots of food, and washing bulky cooking utensils. Some households also use it for boiling water, preparing food for animals, or doing other household chores.

The arrangement varies from one home to another. Some dirty kitchens are open-air spaces with a roof, a sink, and a wood-burning or charcoal stove. Others are enclosed rooms equipped with a gas stove, running water, and modern appliances.

In short, the dirty kitchen is a practical extension of the main kitchen.

Why Is This Arrangement So Common in the Philippines?

There is no single explanation. Several factors help explain why the tradition has remained popular.

1. Our tropical climate

The Philippines is a tropical country. Much of the year is hot and humid, and cooking can make an already warm house even warmer.

An outdoor or semi-open kitchen allows heat and steam to escape more easily. When the weather permits, it can also provide better ventilation than a small enclosed kitchen.

2. Filipino cooking methods

Filipino cuisine includes many dishes prepared by frying, grilling, boiling, and simmering for long periods.

Think of frying dried fish for breakfast, preparing a large pot of sinigang, or cooking adobo with garlic, vinegar, soy sauce, and spices. These dishes are delicious, but their aromas can linger in the house.

A separate cooking area helps keep heat, smoke, grease, and strong cooking smells away from the living room and bedrooms.

3. Cooking for a large family

Filipino families often gather for birthdays, fiestas, weddings, baptisms, Christmas, and other special occasions. These gatherings may require preparing food for dozens of relatives and friends.

A regular indoor kitchen can quickly become crowded when several dishes must be prepared at the same time. An additional cooking area provides room for larger pots, extra burners, and more people helping with the meal.

4. Tradition and practicality

In many older Filipino homes, the kitchen was located at the rear of the house or in a separate structure. Depending on the household, cooking might involve firewood, charcoal, or other fuels that produce smoke and soot.

Separating this activity from the main living area made practical sense. As homes modernized, the outdoor kitchen continued to serve a useful purpose, even when gas stoves and other conveniences replaced traditional cooking methods.

5. The organization of household work

In some Filipino households, a live-in cook or housekeeper manages much of the daily food preparation. A separate kitchen can give that person a dedicated workspace.

This may be particularly convenient in larger homes where the family entertains frequently.

However, not every Filipino family has a household helper, and many modern homes have fully equipped indoor kitchens without a separate dirty kitchen. The arrangement depends on the family's needs, budget, space, and lifestyle.

What About the Modern Filipino Home?

Returning to my relative's new house in Jaro, Iloilo, I find it interesting that the house includes a room for a live-in maid, cook, and housekeeper, complete with a private bathroom.

That feature reflects one way some larger Filipino homes accommodate domestic help. But I cannot say whether the house has a dirty kitchen because my relative did not mention one.

Modern Filipino architecture offers many possibilities. Some homes have beautiful indoor kitchens with islands, built-in ovens, and modern appliances. Others retain a separate outdoor cooking area. Some have both, while smaller homes may have only one kitchen.

A modern house does not necessarily need a dirty kitchen. Nevertheless, for a family that frequently prepares large meals or enjoys traditional Filipino cooking, a second cooking area can still be useful.

There is also an important distinction between a separate kitchen designed for convenience and a poorly ventilated or unhygienic cooking space. Whatever its location, a kitchen should have proper sanitation, safe fuel connections, adequate ventilation, and protection from pests and the weather.

Memories of Our Beach House in Marinduque

My own experience brings me to Chateau Du Mer, our beach house and retirement home in Boac, Marinduque.

We did not have a permanent dirty kitchen as such. Our house was designed for comfortable living and enjoying the surroundings of our island home.

But special occasions sometimes required special arrangements.

I remember one occasion when we constructed a temporary outdoor kitchen and put up a tent for cooking lechon, a whole young pig roasted over a fire until the skin becomes beautifully crisp and the meat is tender.

Preparing lechon is quite different from making an ordinary meal. It requires space, equipment, heat, time, and people who know what they are doing. It is not the kind of cooking one would normally undertake in a conventional indoor kitchen.

The temporary outdoor kitchen gave us the room we needed. The tent provided some shelter for the people doing the cooking, while the outdoor setting kept the heat and smoke away from the house.

More importantly, preparing lechon was part of the occasion itself. It was not simply a matter of putting food on the table. It was about bringing people together, sharing the work, anticipating the meal, and enjoying the company of family and friends.

Looking back, I realize that our temporary outdoor kitchen served much the same practical purpose as a traditional dirty kitchen, even though we never called it one.

Food Is More Than Food in Filipino Culture


For Filipinos, cooking is closely connected with hospitality.

When relatives visit, we often ask whether they have eaten. When friends come to the house, we look for something to serve them. During family celebrations, the dining table becomes a gathering place where generations meet, stories are exchanged, and memories are made.

The kitchen, whether indoors or outdoors, is at the center of this experience.

A dirty kitchen may not be the most glamorous part of a house. It may be hidden behind the main building, away from the beautifully furnished living room. Yet it can be one of the hardest-working spaces in the home.

It reminds us that a comfortable household depends not only on attractive architecture but also on the practical arrangements that make everyday life possible.

There is another lesson here. Traditions do not always disappear when a country modernizes. Sometimes they adapt. The old wood-burning stove may give way to a gas burner, and a simple outdoor shelter may become a fully equipped second kitchen. The purpose, however, remains much the same.

A Final Reflection

As I approach my 92nd birthday, I find myself increasingly interested in the ordinary things that connect our past with the present.

A modern house in Jaro, Iloilo, can remind me of the homes I knew growing up in the Philippines. A memory of roasting lechon at Chateau Du Mer can bring back the excitement of family gatherings and celebrations.

The dirty kitchen is a small example of how architecture reflects culture. It tells us something about our climate, our food, our family arrangements, and our tradition of hospitality.

I do not know whether my relative's new home has one. Perhaps a modern indoor kitchen is sufficient for the family's needs. Perhaps there is a separate cooking area that simply was not mentioned.

Either way, I am reminded that the true value of a home cannot be measured by its architectural style, the number of rooms, or the sophistication of its appliances.

A home becomes special because of the people who live in it, the meals they share, the guests they welcome, and the memories they create.

And sometimes, the most memorable meal is not prepared in the beautiful kitchen inside the house, but under a simple outdoor tent, beside a fire, while a lechon slowly turns and family members gather nearby.

That, to me, is part of the Filipino meaning of home.

A Modern Architectural Gem in Jaro, Iloilo, Philippines

A Beautiful Blend of Curves, Contemporary Design, and Filipino Tropical Living

As I approach my 92nd birthday, I continue to appreciate beautiful things, whether they are found in nature, art, or architecture. My lifelong interest in science has also taught me to admire the creativity, imagination, and technical knowledge that go into designing something extraordinary.

Recently, a close relative of mine completed a beautiful new residence in Jaro, Iloilo, in the Philippines. When I saw its photograph, I was immediately attracted to its unusual design. Unlike the traditional rectangular houses we commonly see, this home features sweeping curves, rounded walls, warm wooden finishes, and an impressive entrance gate.

The house reportedly received a 2026 Architecture Award for Non-Commercial Buildings. With seven bedrooms and five bathrooms, it is also a substantial family residence rather than a small house, despite its compact-looking architectural footprint in the photograph. A swimming pool is currently under construction within the property.

I would like to share with my worldwide readers some observations about the architectural style of this remarkable home.

1. A Contemporary Modern Architectural Style

The house can best be described as contemporary organic architecture with tropical modernist influences.

Contemporary architecture refers to buildings designed with the ideas, materials, and technology of our time. It does not follow one fixed historical style. Instead, it allows architects to experiment with shapes, textures, natural light, and the relationship between indoor and outdoor spaces.

Organic architecture, on the other hand, emphasizes flowing forms and a harmonious relationship between a building and its surroundings.

This house combines elements of both approaches. Its rounded walls and sweeping roofline give the building a soft, almost sculptural appearance. The design avoids the rigid box-like shapes associated with many conventional modern homes.

The result is a residence that looks more like a piece of contemporary sculpture than an ordinary house.

2. The Dramatic Curved Roof

One of the most striking features is the large, sweeping roof that extends outward over the upper floor.

Its broad, curved profile creates a strong visual statement. Rather than using the familiar triangular roof of many traditional Filipino homes, the architect has chosen a fluid, asymmetrical form that resembles a wave.

The underside of the roof appears to have a wood-finished ceiling. Its warm brown color contrasts beautifully with the light-colored exterior walls. The pale roof edge also emphasizes the building's unusual outline.

Beyond its visual appeal, an extended roof can provide shade for windows, balconies, and portions of the exterior walls. In a tropical location such as Iloilo, this can be particularly useful because it helps limit direct sunlight and may reduce heat entering the house.

Of course, the actual thermal performance depends on the roof's insulation, ventilation, orientation, and construction. A beautiful roof must also perform well in the Philippines' heat, heavy rainfall, and occasional strong storms.

3. Rounded Walls and Sculptural Forms

Another distinctive feature is the extensive use of curved surfaces.

The exterior walls do not meet in sharp, box-like corners everywhere. Instead, rounded sections flow into one another, giving the house a softer and more dynamic appearance.

Notice the rounded window surrounds and the curved form of the upper balcony. These details help create visual continuity throughout the design.

The building also has an asymmetrical composition. Its different sections do not mirror one another, yet they appear to belong together. This balance between variety and unity is an important characteristic of successful contemporary design.

Curves can also create interesting interior spaces, although they require careful planning and construction. Windows, furniture, built-in cabinets, and structural supports must all be coordinated with the building's geometry.

The architect deserves credit for attempting something more adventurous than the usual rectangular residential design.

4. Windows That Become Architectural Features

The windows are not simply openings placed in the walls. They are integrated into the overall design.

Several have rounded or curved surrounds, and the prominent upper window is framed by a warm, textured brown finish. Its shape makes it a focal point of the façade.

These window arrangements give the house a distinctive identity. They also demonstrate how small architectural details can contribute to the character of an entire building.

In a tropical climate, windows must do more than look attractive. Their placement and size influence daylight, ventilation, privacy, and indoor comfort. Shading, suitable glazing, and protection against wind-driven rain are also important considerations.

The photograph gives us a view of the exterior, but it does not tell us how effectively these features perform inside the house.

5. The Balcony and the Connection Between Indoors and Outdoors

The upper-floor balcony is another attractive feature. Its curved metal railing follows the shape of the building, while its open design preserves a sense of lightness.

The balcony appears to be partially sheltered by the projecting roof, creating a transition between the enclosed interior and the outdoors.

This is especially appropriate for a Philippine home, where outdoor living is often an important part of family life. A sheltered balcony can provide a place to enjoy the breeze, entertain visitors, or simply sit and observe the surrounding garden.

The balcony's design also reinforces the home's overall theme: rounded forms, flowing lines, and an emphasis on openness.

Its practical value, however, will depend on the amount of shade, airflow, privacy, and protection it receives during the rainy season.

6. A Warm Palette of Colors and Materials

The color scheme is restrained but effective.

The principal exterior walls are a soft cream or ivory. These light colors contrast with the rich brown, wood-like finishes beneath the roof and around selected windows. The metal railings and other details add further texture without overwhelming the design.

This combination gives the house a warm, elegant appearance.

The wood tones are particularly important because they soften the otherwise modern exterior. Without them, the pale walls and smooth curves might look too stark or institutional.

The design demonstrates that modern architecture does not have to feel cold. Careful use of color, texture, and natural-looking materials can make a contemporary building appear welcoming.

Whether the brown finishes are natural wood or another material cannot be established from the photograph alone. In the Philippines, the choice of materials and their resistance to moisture, heat, insects, and weathering are important to long-term maintenance.

7. The Entrance Gate: A Design of Its Own

The front boundary and entrance gate deserve special attention.

The cream-colored wall is formed from repeated curved sections, while the metalwork above it creates fan-like patterns. The main gate repeats these flowing shapes, making the entrance an extension of the house's architectural language.

Instead of treating the fence as an unrelated security feature, the design connects it visually with the building behind it.

The gate is large and imposing, yet its curves soften its appearance. The decorative metalwork adds movement and texture, while the solid lower sections provide a greater sense of enclosure and privacy.

This is a good example of how architecture includes more than the main building. Gates, fences, pathways, landscaping, and outdoor spaces all influence the first impression of a property.

The architectural firm's name displayed on the gate also identifies the design as the work of a professional architectural practice.

8. Tropical Modernism and Life in the Philippines

The house's setting in Jaro, Iloilo, is an important part of its story.

Tropical modernism adapts modern architectural ideas to warm climates. Depending on the design, it may incorporate generous shade, covered outdoor spaces, natural ventilation, greenery, and materials suited to local conditions.

Several features visible here—the extended roof, sheltered balcony, and relationship between the building and its outdoor surroundings—are compatible with that approach.

However, I would be cautious about calling this a textbook example of tropical architecture based on one exterior photograph. We would need to know more about its orientation, ventilation, insulation, landscaping, and response to the local climate.

Still, the house illustrates how contemporary design in the Philippines can move beyond familiar architectural forms while responding to the needs of modern family life.

Its seven bedrooms and five bathrooms suggest that it was designed to accommodate a large household or frequent family gatherings. The swimming pool under construction will add another recreational feature to the property.

Together, these elements suggest a home intended for both comfortable living and hospitality.

9. Architecture as Art and Engineering

What I find most interesting about this house is the combination of artistic expression and practical construction.

The sweeping roof, curved walls, unusual windows, and flowing gate are visual decisions. But every one of these features must also be translated into engineering drawings, structural calculations, material specifications, drainage systems, and construction details.

Curved forms can be more demanding to build than simple rectangular shapes. They require coordination among the architect, structural engineer, contractors, and craftsmen.

The roof must be properly supported and waterproofed. Curved exterior surfaces must be finished accurately. Balconies and railings must meet appropriate safety requirements. Drainage must prevent water from collecting on surfaces that were not designed to hold it.

In this sense, architecture is both an art and a science.

My years as a scientist taught me to appreciate the discipline required to turn an idea into something that works in the real world. A successful building must satisfy the eye, but it must also provide safety, comfort, durability, and usefulness.

The reported architectural award makes this residence especially interesting, although I have not independently verified the award's issuing organization or judging criteria.

My Personal Reflection

Having lived through many decades of architectural and technological change, I enjoy seeing how people continue to imagine new ways of designing their homes.

This residence in Jaro is very different from the traditional houses I remember from my younger years in the Philippines. Its modern curves, dramatic roof, and carefully coordinated exterior details give it a distinctive personality.

I am particularly pleased that contemporary architecture continues to develop in Iloilo, a city with its own rich history, culture, and architectural heritage.

A house is more than a collection of rooms, walls, and a roof. It is a place where families gather, children grow up, celebrations take place, and memories are created. The most beautiful house is not necessarily the largest or the most expensive. It is one that combines thoughtful design with comfort, function, and the needs of the people who live in it.

I congratulate my relative on the completion of this remarkable home and on its reported recognition in the 2026 architectural awards.

May the house become a place filled not only with beauty, but also with laughter, family gatherings, good health, and many happy memories.

After all, the true success of a home is measured not only by how it looks from the street, but also by the happiness and love shared within its walls.

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